"I want to see my grandchild's face." "Are you married yet?" It became uncomfortable, and eventually, I said: "I'm dating someone with the intention of marriage." I thought this might help me calm down a bit, but this time, a storm reminded me, "Take me there quickly," "When will you take me there?" This kind of thing... the only person I can ask is him. "Wife... can I borrow you for a night?"